You don’t believe it? Perhaps you should. 

The choice was made long before you were born. Our lives, the trials we encounter, and the disappointments we experience in relationships are, in a way, an examination each of us must go through. We are tested for resilience, loyalty, integrity. And instead of receiving a grade at the end of this “exam,” we are given the answer to a different question: have we become ready to meet them? Our true love...

You have already chosen the person who will turn your nights into a beautiful fairy tale and fill your days with wonder and joy. You will discover what it feels like to have so much inside you that there never seems to be enough time to tell another person everything you feel. You will talk and talk, breathlessly, endlessly... and even an entire lifetime will seem too short to say it all.

Your soul will feel as though it is leaping out of your chest whenever this person is near. It will join their soul in an unimaginable, almost otherworldly dance.

Your body will rejoice at every touch of the person you love. You will love everything about it: the way they hold you, the way they gently tickle the back of your neck, the way they whisper your name into the darkness of the night...

It will be a love that turns your entire life upside down and fills your soul with joy and happiness.

You will experience happiness in a way you have never known before. There will be no doubt left in you: this is the one. Your body will know it too and quietly tell you, This is the person you have been searching for all these years. You may remain silent, but your eyes will be screaming with love.

You will become restless. You will search for their smile among the faces of strangers. You will listen through the cacophony of sounds, hoping to recognize that familiar voice. And you may never even understand exactly how or when it happened—when you became so deeply connected to this person that you could no longer imagine your life without them. Something like this happens only once in a lifetime.

The person you chose long ago will do something else incredibly important for you: they will help you discover the meaning of your own life. You will understand why you are here and for whom.

You will realize that only beside this person do you feel extraordinary, as though you could move mountains and swim across oceans, as long as they are there with you.

Once you experience this astonishing feeling, it will seem as though wings have grown behind you. You will begin doing everything possible—and even what once seemed impossible—to become better, stronger, more magnificent. And this will fill your soul with happiness.

There will be love. And there will be the person you chose long before you were born.

The negativity will begin to disappear from your life, replaced by everything bright, warm, and full of sunlight. You will even begin looking at the world through different eyes. You will notice moments of happiness that you once might have overlooked.

You will also begin seeing yourself differently. This person will make you believe that your body is beautiful, that your skin is exquisite, that you are truly extraordinary. Their love will give you confidence and the strength to keep moving forward without giving up. Among thousands of people in a crowd, others will recognize you by your beautiful posture and the happiness shining from your eyes.

The more deeply you are valued, the more confident you will become. The doubts, anxieties, and hesitation will begin to disappear. Now you know where you are going—and who you are walking beside.

SO WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO DO TO MEET SUCH A PERSON?

Nothing.

Simply learn to say no.

Say no to everything that is less than what you deserve. Say no to what is false, dishonest, and unreal. Do not settle for someone who is not your person simply because you are afraid of being alone.

Everything has its own time.

1. Do not settle for less simply because you crave physical intimacy.
2. Wait for your love. Wait for the one who lights a fire inside your soul.
3. Do not rush. Patiently wait for the love that will transform your entire life.
4. Wait for the love that brings genuine joy.
5. Wait for the love that makes you feel extraordinary.
6. Wait for the love that feels like a blessing from destiny.
7. Wait for the love you have been searching for all your life.
8. Wait for the love you have already chosen.

Wait... It will come...