When I look at the field of so-called “light beings,” aka people who name themselves as Warriors of Light, I don’t see elevated spirituality. I see an open system without protection, without a center, and without the right to itself. I see a massive deeper wound and avoidance of looking there. Such a field doesn’t radiate, it leaks outward, and reality always enters where it can take without resistance. This has nothing to do with punishment, bad people, or karma. It has to do with how a field is structured.

The victim and the rescuer are not personality traits or destiny roles. They are forms of energetic poverty. One cannot hold boundaries, the other is afraid to set them in order not to lose the image of being “good.” As a result, both live with the feeling of being deceived, betrayed, and used, even though the field is simply following a basic law: where there is no structure, intrusion occurs. Chaos will always be limited by a form, otherwise there is no balance. 

This is why the empath and the psychopath are drawn to each other, not by accident. It is not a battle of light and darkness, but a meeting of two imbalances. One gives themselves entirely, the other takes without hesitation. As long as this is labeled karma, trauma, or a spiritual lesson, the dynamic continues, because it remains unrecognized as a structural issue. You can continue "working on your lessons" until you 100th incarnation, it's YOUR fucking choice! Maybe another trip will fix it. Maybe another night out will... or maybe a nice present would definitely make him/her come to their senses. Nope! 

“Light warriors” often say they choose love, acceptance, and forgiveness. And they always want to "work on the lesson" or analyze it... On the level of ideas, it sounds beautiful, yet in a living field it frequently appears as a refusal of strength, authority, and responsibility for oneself. If another person is a piece of shit or a complete asshole, let's use proper names for them vs. "oh, they just need a little bit more time"... they do need time, but YOU DO NOT! One can be gentle, kind, and sensitive, but when the field is not gathered, it will be broken again and again. This doesn’t happen because people are evil, but because the field is accessible. and if you are stuck in this field waiting for some asshole to come to his/her senses, wake the fuck up, gather your shit and leave into that brand new day... while you still have another chance. 

Wholeness is not about being light or dark, nor is it the opposite of either. Wholeness is the capacity to hold and feel at the same time. It is the ability to say “no” without explanations and remain in contact with oneself. A whole person does not rescue and does not endure... they simply exist, and others do not enter their field without invitation.

Here the most uncomfortable truth emerges. As long as the choice is to be “light,” the field remains open to being used. When the choice is wholeness, victims, predators, and illusions leave one’s life. In their place come respect, equal relationships, and real strength.

If you recognized yourself in this text, don’t rush to justify yourself. Justification is a defense of the victim, not of power. The simple fact that you are being used already indicates that your field allows it. This is not a reason for shame, but a point of honesty.

The first step is to stop confusing sensitivity with the absence of boundaries. Empathy without structure turns into leakage. As long as you feel everyone but do not hold yourself, reality will enter your field without permission, and you will keep calling it a “lesson.”

The second step is to return to your center. Not through affirmations and not through loving everyone, but through an honest, sometimes painful question: where do I give more than I can hold, and where do I choose to be convenient in order not to be rejected. This is where power is lost.

The third step is learning to tolerate tension. Wholeness has nothing to do with comfort. It is the ability to remain with yourself when you are not approved of, not understood, and not rescued. As long as there is fear of being “not good,” that fear will be used to control you.

The fourth step is abandoning the childish division of the world into light and darkness. Mature consciousness holds softness and firmness at the same time. This is what makes a field closed to intrusion and manipulation.

Wholeness is a state in which there is no need to prove, justify, or explain your “no.” You simply are, and such a field is not entered without invitation.

If what you feel now is not inspiration but inner tension, that is a good sign. It means you have reached the boundary of an old role. From here, the choice is clear: continue being light and convenient, or begin gathering yourself for real.

This is where real work begins. Not a spiritual game, but the maturation of consciousness.